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Society has robbed you of who you are. They say you’re too fat, too skinny, too whatever…
Somehow you are your body.
Impressions of ourselves have been cheapened by the opinions of corporations marketing goods.
It’s still taboo in many cultures to be naked in public, but commonplace in so many other societies around the world. Those cultures (and some places stateside — I live in such a place now) view nonsexual nudity -without- using a sexual lens — rightly so.
The purpose of this post isn’t to debate nudity, generate “shock value,” or convince anyone that public nudity isn’t wrong, but I’ll briefly explain how my perspective has changed.
I honestly don’t take issue with public nudity; it isn’t offensive to me.
I’ve matured in my thinking and met people who’ve challenged me to think differently.
Growing up I viewed nudity with an “objectifying” eye. Seeing a naked person was a sexual thing for me. It’s why pornography found its place on my computer screen, like millions of other screens all over the world.
When a person is photographed, or painted in a sexually objectifying manner, a line is crossed; that’s pornography. That’s when a naked person has been dehumanized — many times against their own will or knowledge.
I absolutely believe that publically exposing yourself for the purpose of being seen by others in a sexual manner is wrong.
Discretion and knowing the company you’re with is a must.
A naked person in a traditional sauna, on a designated beach, in a Korean bathhouse, breastfeeding a baby, a nonsexual photograph or video, beautiful artwork, etc. shouldn’t be used for objectification or as a means to sexual fulfillment. Clothing on a person in this sense is irrelevant to the fact that they are a person; their naked body isn’t to provide you with a peep show.
— Moving On —
I’ve read a few articles of people — mostly women — who’ve had the courage to stand up for themselves — for real beauty!
This article is about 8 moms who visited a beach — going “mostly naked.” It’s a wonderful testimony of new moms rebutting the adage that “stretchmarks and muffin tops are nasty,” “big hips and thighs are unattractive,” and “only skinny is pretty.”
I love how these women not only shed their clothes in public — having found their true value and identity — but they also threw their inhibitions to the wind posing for a group picture!
Articles about someone learning to love their real self are inspiring!
These are exhilarating “I get it” moments; times when a person realizes that their body is just that, a body.
Celebrating that moment with a topless group picture on a beach tells me that something magical just happened within their minds! They’ve just learned a person is so much more than a body.
That’s incredible, they’re incredible, and I wish with everything in me that the rest of the breathing world would also “get it” by breaking the mental connection of nudity and sex.
In the appropriate moment, that connection is a wonderful thing, but in public, it’s certainly not an invitation for you to objectify anyone.
From the age of 12, Essena idolized models. By the time she was 19, she had a full blown modelling career of her own.
She spent hours retaking hundreds of selfies for her Instagram just to “get the right one,” and “all of them were fake.”
She sucked in her tummy, wore push-up bras, and posed just the right way to get exactly what she and her sponsors wanted; a beautifully accentuated body.
She’s since deleted all of her social media pictures because “they aren’t real.” Now, in breach of contract, she’s quit modeling. Being a “real person” living a “real life in the real world” is more important to her.
From skinny models, to new moms — poor self image is reeking havoc on people everywhere — especially on women. It’s wrong, it’s disgusting, and as a male feminist it really pisses me off!
The self-consciousness only exists because our minds have been warped to conform to society’s perception of what’s acceptable.
Why do ladies feel like they have to conform to the cookie cutter mold that society says they do?
It’s a massive grievance for companies to get rich making you feel like you don’t measure up.
Is it wrong for a mother to breastfeed her baby in public? Is it wrong for a woman to celebrate a breakthrough by realizing, as a person, she is more than a body?
Whether or not you celebrate by shedding your bikini (or even move from a sweatshirt to a bikini), hear my words: YOU ARE NOT YOUR BODY!
Your job isn’t to insure that others aren’t viewing your body in an objectifying manner. That error is on them to work out!
You are a wonderfully made, exquisite soul, complete with skin.
— You are beautiful exactly the way you are! —
Don’t waste your life being concerned how others view your skin — it’s not worth your time or stress.
Your skin is a trivial part of who you are!
Love your body, love yourself, be yourself — and celebrate those who have the courage to do the same!